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Maturity

It doesn't always came with age infact it's deeper than age. Its about the way you see and understand things. The way you consider other,the way you communicate ,the way you react.      Sometimes you have to suffer in life not because you were bad but because you didn't realise where to stop being good. Don't depend too much on anyone in this world because even your own shadow leaves you when you are in darkness .... Maturity is when you stop asking peopwhy don't you call me text me anymore younjust notice the change and accept it .no drama no fight .    You just walk away with with smile:) NOTE TO SELF :  sometime  you just need to learn to walk through the pain then go above it.  Dont let it get to you .sometimes ,the person you think they'd be aren't the actual person they are . And that's how it breaks you .so dont expect,but more important is dont put yourself in the situation you see its gonna hurt you .           ...

trauma makes experience to mature

 "I've come to tell you that you've grown up now. I know, but please don't kill the child within you, okay? It's alright, because you know that once you kill the child within and become overly mature, you'll get stuck in trying to appear mature and composed instead of being your true self. Learn to adjust, but not always, not now, not today. After a few years, you'll experience the pressure to appear mature and composed every time, and it will become a habit, just like how gamblers get addicted to gambling. I started living with others (uncle/aunt) from the age of 3-5. Everyone has experienced bad behavior from others in some way, especially during childhood when children don't know much about right and wrong. This includes good touch and bad touch. Some people have even gone through violence, torture, harassment, and molestation. And I'm one of them.i faced torture to violence like hitting on the walls , I was not only beaten, but my hands were als...

time management and prioritization

Productivity these days hinges around two primary topics that we've discussed numerous times on The Challenge. Time management determines how well you adhere to your timetable and honor your commitments. If you're excellent at it, you'll focus on one activity at a time and keep your procrastination in check. Prioritization determines how well you can select the task that produces the highest outcomes. There are numerous approaches to achieve the same aim. And choosing the quickest and least stressful route is something you can practice. By integrating these two themes, you can increase productivity while avoiding toxic behaviors.

Welcome overthinkers

 Hello, cuties!! Welcome to my secret area for all the overthinkers out there. Let me tell you, the world is terrible, but it is not as we perceive. right? Simply modify your perspective near the end of your life. Just add one word to your perspective, and that word is nothing but good. Yes, simply include it into every negative role, attitude, and thought, and you will be shocked, okie. I know what you're thinking: no one understands you, and no one is here to listen. You assumed they heard only to respond, not to understand, and now you know. Right? Don't do it if you feel judged, have doubts about yourself, or are anxious. Don't you dare feel like that if you are unheard, I'm here for you ❤️ jaha tumhe suna jayega bina jugde kiye aur samjha bhi jayega :)     and also I'll share my experience with thought of perspective and my everyday perspective.  Your truly! Sp